So my fiance and I were discussing the rehearsal dinner, whether or not to have one, who actually has to attend, where to have it, who pays, etc. After deciding to have one and where to have it, it became the first mini argument of wedding planning. (His mom and dad do not get along and he doesn't want them in the same enclosed space for any longer than they have to be.) So my question is other than the bridal party, who attends the rehearsal dinner?