HELP! Bridesmaids/Groomsmen issues!!

beethery · June 2014

@bethanyf92

This is fucking hilarious. Child, not to toot horns but
ROOTY-TOOT-TOOT
I am fucking gorgeous, and from the pictures I've seen of the other posters here, they are all too! Mosey on outta here with that shit. Calling people ugly isn't going to suddenly make everyone take your side. Has that ever worked for you before? Just go to WB or whatever where you can get your validation that you need so badly.

ohannabelle · June 2014

bethanyf92 said:

You're all trolls. I'm sorry that you were the ugly ones in high school and now you feel important. lmao

I'm sorry that you were upset when people called you immature. Next year, when you turn fourteen, it will be easier to handle.

Strawberry211chicago · June 2014

bethanyf92 said:

You're all trolls. I'm sorry that you were the ugly ones in high school and now you feel important. lmao

What? Really. You stay classy Bethany.

Cookie Pusher · June 2014

Wait, did she say she felt sorry for our SOs/FIs/Hs? If she did, I think I got a Bingo!

babs0726 · June 2014

bahahah, comedy.

Viczaesar · June 2014

bethanyf92 said:

You're all trolls. I'm sorry that you were the ugly ones in high school and now you feel important. lmao

Yes, you're obviously super mature and in no way acting like a bratty junior high kid.

CMGragain · June 2014

@bethanyf92 Do you know what the word "troll" means on the internet? You were obviously trying to insult us, but this makes no sense as an insult.

KPBM89 · June 2014

Excuse me, but where in my post did I attack you? Since, ya know, you're claiming that everyone attacked you prior to one post. I asked you questions (which you failed to answer) and then gave you honest advice.

Lumping everyone on here into a group of "trolls", "hags", and "bitchy people" is not only entirely incorrect (because no-one is), but also unfair (because you're receiving honest advice, which you asked for) and immature (because name-calling is just unnecessary).

PrincessOfHavoc · June 2014

When you invite guests to take a vacation with you, it's your responsibility to pay to my parental teaching (ok, just from my delightfully Southern mom and grandmother). You are to host them, not plan a vacation strictly based on your wants then request payment.

With any event - if it involves major time commitments, you need to accept that people are going to decline. Or life may throw a spanner in the works. With the flooding locally that was very nasty, I had to step out of many plans because I am a hardware store manager. We needed to be open, simply because people needed supplies. Ethically, we felt we should be open longer hours, if only for bewildered people to get a short break and eat a bit. I had several employees who couldn't travel at all. So I basically lived at the store. I simply could not take time off.

Honestly, for a five hour drive, I can't say I'd want to bother. That's a huge chunk of time just driving. If it was demanded of me, well, I'm stubborn and wouldn't attend. Yes, I know it makes me a bitch.

You asked what help was needed, you were told. There's no fault on your sister.

Sure, the guy made a poor choice. But, that's why you carry one of those AA battery chargers for your phone. Or turn off the apps and save the battery. There's no point in ruining a friendship over that. Well, not if all parties act like mature people. Junior high aged children tend to pull that stunt.

Wedding party requirements. 1) Show up for the ceremony on time. 2) Show up sober or fake it with your hangover, even if that means hair of the dog. 3) Wear requested attire. Even burlap tutus. Those are the only requirements. Run with that, it makes planning much easier.

But this ugly hag with a fat ass from sitting at the computer eating bon-bons is now off to go put on her eyeliner because it's funny to make my boss weird out at seeing my Irene Adler look because she doesn't want to see me in her battledress. Which is why I claim no maturity whatsoever as I get the giggles from her reaction. ETA : While I have no problem saying I'm attractive, I don't really think I'm pretty. However, I pin my hair up and break out the right eyeliner, I get the Irene comments all day from way too many people. I just like my hair up that way since before she was introduced. Yes, I do have a big booty, you can set a table for twelve on it. But it's from muscles and it's tight. I grumble about it, but DF likes it.

babs0726 · June 2014

PrincessOfHavoc-that was awesome, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Okay ya'll, I'm going to come back down to reality for a minute and admit that I was completely out of line. Yes, a lot of you are bitchy, overgrown cyber bullies; but not all of you. But I was no better, I was OVER THE TOP. I just got so angry and turned into something else. It made me sick how everyone was judging me so harshly and I hadn't felt like I did anything wrong (and I still don't). I have always been very courteous to my girls and FI, I just didn't present the whole thing as well as I should have. I'm also not a wedding expert like some of you! Also, I had posted the same discussion on another site and the women there gave me constructive advice and did not start judging me right off the bat. They were much more welcoming, so maybe think about that for the future New Knotties..

I'm very sorry for insulting you all, truly. I'm ashamed of myself and if FI saw, he'd be ashamed too. He is what all this is about and I cannot WAIT to unite myself with him next month!!

Thanks for all your input and whether or not you choose to accept my apology is your choice. Just wanted you all to know that I realize I made an ass out of myself. And I am positive I'm not as immature as I made myself seem!

manateehugger · June 2014

bethanyf92 said:

PrincessOfHavoc-that was awesome, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Okay ya'll, I'm going to come back down to reality for a minute and admit that I was completely out of line. Yes, a lot of you are bitchy, overgrown cyber bullies; but not all of you. But I was no better, I was OVER THE TOP. I just got so angry and turned into something else. It made me sick how everyone was judging me so harshly and I hadn't felt like I did anything wrong (and I still don't). I have always been very courteous to my girls and FI, I just didn't present the whole thing as well as I should have. I'm also not a wedding expert like some of you! Also, I had posted the same discussion on another site and the women there gave me constructive advice and did not start judging me right off the bat. They were much more welcoming, so maybe think about that for the future New Knotties..

I'm very sorry for insulting you all, truly. I'm ashamed of myself and if FI saw, he'd be ashamed too. He is what all this is about and I cannot WAIT to unite myself with him next month!!

Thanks for all your input and whether or not you choose to accept my apology is your choice. Just wanted you all to know that I realize I made an ass out of myself. And I am positive I'm not as immature as I made myself seem!

STOP throwing this term out. You didn't get the advice you wanted, threw a fit, and then got called out for throwing a fit. That is NOT cyber-bullying. People enter severe depressions and/or take their own lives over true cyber-bullying (they also largely cannot escape it - you can leave your post and move on at any time). STOP using this term lightly; it is distateful and ignorant, making light of a real issue.

Look, when a couple people disagree with you, fine, think you are impervious to screwing up. But when a large number of internet strangers tell you, "You need to get over this," getting over it merits consideration.

You know how a lot of us became "wedding experts"? We lurked, we asked for advice here, and we took that advice.

You SHOULD remember that marrying your FI is what this whole deal is about. Many of us told you that. If you remember that, you'll have a lot less of this unnecessary drama.

Also, this sorrynotsorry post doesn't help your maturity cause; it's not much of an apology.

babs0726 · June 2014

Like I said....

Kauris · June 2014

Wait, are you by chance writing a thesis?

ohannabelle · June 2014

bethanyf92 said:

PrincessOfHavoc-that was awesome, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Okay ya'll, I'm going to come back down to reality for a minute and admit that I was completely out of line. Yes, a lot of you are bitchy, overgrown cyber bullies; but not all of you. But I was no better, I was OVER THE TOP. I just got so angry and turned into something else. It made me sick how everyone was judging me so harshly and I hadn't felt like I did anything wrong (and I still don't). I have always been very courteous to my girls and FI, I just didn't present the whole thing as well as I should have. I'm also not a wedding expert like some of you! Also, I had posted the same discussion on another site and the women there gave me constructive advice and did not start judging me right off the bat. They were much more welcoming, so maybe think about that for the future New Knotties..

I'm very sorry for insulting you all, truly. I'm ashamed of myself and if FI saw, he'd be ashamed too. He is what all this is about and I cannot WAIT to unite myself with him next month!!

Thanks for all your input and whether or not you choose to accept my apology is your choice. Just wanted you all to know that I realize I made an ass out of myself. And I am positive I'm not as immature as I made myself seem!

Parts of this almost seemed like an apology. The bitchy overgrown cyber bullies thing, that just kind of invalidated it. Apologies don't have qualifiers.

NYCMercedes · June 2014

Yeah, it's not an apology if you sling more shit. @ohannabelle‌ , thank you for that good quote from the book of Mom: Apologies Don't Have Qualifiers!

babs0726 · June 2014

Just saying how I feel.!

Viczaesar · June 2014

bethanyf92 said:

Just saying how I feel.!

Out of curiosity, were you born in 1992?

babs0726 · June 2014

Matter of fact, I was.

Strawberry211chicago · June 2014

That is shocking.

buttercup1958 · June 2014

This makes me sad that this person is older than me.

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