Either my bridesmaids and family are being very, very sneaky, or I am not having one. I'm pretty sure I will not be having a bridal shower - and that is just fine with me!
My assumption is that I won't be having one, but who knows. I just got engaged in May so I really don't know that anyone is in that line of thinking just yet. My mom figures I may not have one b/c I don't have a bridal party and she doesn't seem to think she should be the one to plan one.
@Dignity100 - my friend was getting married in FL today as a matter of fact, probably as we speak/type! With no guests. And we had a small dinner party with some girlfriends for her...we surprised her. So you never know! It was sort of a shower/bachelorette party all in one before she left. But I definitely get why you said no to one.
@Lauramae980 - yeah, I'd see what your man of honor's interest is in your stepmother's plans, then ask him if he'd mind if your stepmother reaches out to him via email in case she has questions, etc.
@SehlinBride - totally agree with LaPeanut1018 on this one. When it's the official bridal shower your family/friends are throwing, it needs to be limited to those who are invited to the wedding.
I have an update to my "shower" - I was telling FI yesterday that I doubt I will have a shower since I don't have BM. He said to me twice during the conversation "well, you never really know". I have a feeling his mom or someone else might be planning something. I could tell he was trying to tell me without actually telling me.