I have a friend to whom I sent a save-the-date 4 months back. We are not close friends, but she is the roommate of one of my bridesmaids and was for a short time my roommate too, and since we see each other socially on occasion, I thought it would be nice to include her.
I have not heard from her or seen her since sending the save the date, and I've heard from her roommate / my bridesmaid that she isn't necessarily excited about attending. Can I remove her from the invite list?