Hello, fellow brides! I have a question and I could use your advice.
My fiancé is in a band with four other people: three guys and one girl. He and I are both close friends with his bandmates and he plans on asking his male bandmates to be his groomsmen, so am I obligated to ask his female bandmate to be a bridesmaid? I am close with her and she has been my friend for a few years, but I don't consider her to be a close enough friend to be a bridesmaid considering my other bridesmaids are either family members or lifelong friends. That being said, I know that she would be hurt if I did not ask her to be a bridesmaid, so I feel bad not asking her. What should I do?