So, I have 12 bridesmaids. I know, I know. I love them all but a few of them aren't contributing at all. That's fine. We all have lives but one I haven't heard from since I got engaged four months ago and the other is my cousin who is young and it's a long story but I don't think they're going to stay in it for the long haul.
How should I address this? I want to talk to them about how I'd like their help in some way or another. I wouldn't have asked each of them to be bridesmaids if I didn't want them to contribute, even if it's something little, ya know?
It's pretty frustrating. I feel like giving my cousin an out. Long story short, her step dad is a D*** and most likely won't buy her dress and I can't afford to pay for it for her unfortunately. I have no idea what I should do. Any ideas?