"Wedding Curse" Continues..

Re: "Wedding Curse" Continues..

• goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826 member

  

  June 2014

  Holy water maybe?

  
  

  I'm sorry you are having such a hard time.  At least you find humor in the little things

  
  

  The highway thing....seriously, you have grace under pressure because I'd be livid.  Positive thoughts headed you way!  

  

  
  

  
  

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• Grabows14 member

  

  June 2014

  It's ok, just imagine Charlotte's wedding from Sex in the City. I think Carrie said something along the lines "the worst the wedding, the better the marriage"

  

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• pompeymagnus member

  

  June 2014

  Wow! I'm sorry, that sounds like a whole buncha mess!
  
  The only words of advice I can give are to keep your chin up, and sometimes you just have to laugh. Life can be ridiculous, but think about when you and FI are happy in eachother's arms in the future, married and laughing in bed about how nothing could keep you down!

  

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• Knottie37373131 member

  

  June 2014

  So happy I do not have to spend so much time worrying about all of this stuff as I am having a destination wedding with just Fiance and I. We do have to plan a small reception when we get back, but that is it. I hope the process gets a little easier on you though! Good luck!

  

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• drina0218 member

  

  June 2014

  @goldchocobo I'm starting to think about bathing in holy water! I actually have the guy's license plate number, yet my insurance has yet to do anything! It's been over two weeks.
  
  @grabows14 My bridesmaid told me I should just be thankful I didn't include a picture because I would most certainly had a "hitler 'stache" a la Charlotte lol. 
  
  @pompeymagnus Thanks! All we can really do is laugh. We joke that we are just going to be grateful when we go back to the days of arguing about who does the dishes and what's for dinner!
  
  @futuremrsk515 Thanks! Count your lucky stars that you have had it a little easier! Ours is sort of destination (without all of the lovely ocean views) because it's 2 hours away so our friends & families (I'm from PA, he NJ) can meet in the middle. I find it so difficult to deal with vendors and plans being so far away!

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• SoontobeMrsNytes member

  

  June 2014

  drina0218 said:

  @goldchocobo I'm starting to think about bathing in holy water! I actually have the guy's license plate number, yet my insurance has yet to do anything! It's been over two weeks.
  
  @grabows14 My bridesmaid told me I should just be thankful I didn't include a picture because I would most certainly had a "hitler 'stache" a la Charlotte lol. 
  
  @pompeymagnus Thanks! All we can really do is laugh. We joke that we are just going to be grateful when we go back to the days of arguing about who does the dishes and what's for dinner!
  
  @futuremrsk515 Thanks! Count your lucky stars that you have had it a little easier! Ours is sort of destination (without all of the lovely ocean views) because it's 2 hours away so our friends & families (I'm from PA, he NJ) can meet in the middle. I find it so difficult to deal with vendors and plans being so far away!

  I completely understand feeling cursed! But, you will get through it and you will be married. Keeping your sense of humor is a must!

  
  

  To the bolded, if you haven't already call the Police and report it as a hit and run. And call a lawyer. Often insurance companies are much more amenable to responding to an attorney.

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• TheGardenBride member

  

  July 2014

  That's quite a string of events! Hopefully they are able to get the guy and he has insurance. Hope for the best with that.
  
  I'm a week and a half away from getting married, and I can completely understand the cursed feeling. Remember that not everything will go right and it seems like you have a really healthy sense of humor from your original post.
  
  I would definitely keep a copy of the marriage announcement that went out and save it in a scrap book. Later on when you look back to that, you will laugh at all the little things that went wrong during the wedding planning!
  

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• drina0218 member

  

  July 2014

  @thegardenbride thank you! We did keep the announcement lol. We just had the shower this weekend and it was literally a shower. It was an outdoor BBQ under a pavilion and we had thunder showers. The party was between 2-4 and we literally had rain from 2-4 then sunny skies after. Just have to laugh and enjoy the moment I guess. 
  

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