Apologies in advance that this is a RANT.
$3,000 in the hole with my FI because this couple had a destination wedding. Next, we are invited to their AHR which includes a bad DJ, bad appetizers, and cash bar.
A reception is supposed to be a thank-you to your guests. Instead this reception turned into a dreadful way for the bride and groom to make more money. Cardbox was all set up when we first walked in.
Re: Destination wedding and at-home reception-- rude and "gift grabby"
Isnt the whole point of the recption that isnt a thank you to the guests? They thanked you by hosting you.
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I don't know that I could have been more clear all the times I've mentioned we don't regard signing a license as our wedding, so there was no need for us to celebrate it or its anniversaries.
With the fact that the local party is subsequent to our DW I'm satisfied you can do the math yourself to figure out the answer to your question.
I don't know that I could have been more clear all the times I've mentioned we don't regard signing a license as our wedding, so there was no need for us to celebrate it or its anniversaries.
With the fact that the local party is subsequent to our DW I'm satisfied you can do the math yourself to figure out the answer to your question.
Just because you don't regard it as such doesn't make it any less real that you are in fact married the day you sign that piece of paper.
Obviously I'm aware of what the government considers my marital status. Clearly that doesn't impress us enough to change our plans. Including an AHR although I only use the acronym bc it's common and people know what it means. There won't be much "reception" involved.
Obviously I'm aware of what the government and family and friends (if you were honest to them in the first place) considers my marital status. Clearly that doesn't impress us enough to change our plans. Including an AHR although I only use the acronym bc it's common and people know what it means. There won't be much "reception" involved.
FTFY
No need to fix. You've obviously missed the fact that many of our guests are well aware and they regard our DW as our one and only wedding just like we do. The AHR is just a party.
The bottom line is that unless EVERYONE is on the same page, it's simply wrong to lie to guests.
FTFY
No need to fix. You've obviously missed the fact that many of our guests are well aware and they regard our DW as our one and only wedding just like we do. The AHR is just a party.
Wow then your story has changed a lot because what I can recall is that you didn't want anyone to know so that they could be in the right "moment" at your PPD.
Nope. Story has never changed. The same people who have always known still know. Those that don't still don't. I think I may have used the term "need to know" to describe the distinction. In fact, so many months ago when I stated this set up was in part my Mom's idea @Maggie0829, you made some sort of snarky comment which I can't quote at the moment but to the effect of apples not falling far from trees or something along those lines.
I'm the fuck out.