Hi all.
I am planning on asking my cousin and his wife if their daughter would be the flower girl for our wedding. I pretty much only see them at family functions (Christmas, Easter, etc.) since they live over an hour away and the only way I can contact them is by messaging his wife on facebook. Would this be a completely rude/inappropriate way to ask if their daughter would be our flower girl? Otherwise my dad would have to call my uncle in order to get a phone number for them, and I know he would procrastinate on doing that.