This is meant to be a light hearted thread...
Anyway, we all know I'm not the most etiquette savvy person around. However, I do know and understand etiquette partly because of this board. That could be a good thing and bad thing. One reason is because I feel like it made me a bit sensitive to things that never bothered me before.
For example, dh and I received an invitation to my aunt and uncle's 40th wedding anniversary. The wedding did state a dress code but that doesn't really bother me, especially since they were asking everyone to wear all white.
What did bother me was the fact that the terms, "no gifts please" was written on the bottom. Normally, I wouldn't care about such a thing. But because I now know it shouldn't be done, I was somewhat bothered by it and dh didn't understand why. So I explained to him that learning etiquette and being on the board has taught me that it's improper to state "no gifts on the invitations." While he understood, he then went on to say, "but knowing etiquette has now made you sensitive to things that are really done harmlessly and with no mal-intent. You are now getting offended and side eyeing things that really doesn't effect you negatively in anyway. You can still go to the party and have a good time and stating no gifts won't stop that. And you know, had you not joined that forum and learned that it was wrong to say, you wouldn't even care about a line stating no gifts."
In a way, I had to agree with him. Yes, it's good to know and practice good etiquette so you know you are a good host to your guests, but it certainly isn't worth side eyeing and getting pissed about stuff that normally wouldn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
Anyway one else feel like knowing etiquette has made you understand more about being a good host but more sensitive to things you normally wouldn't care about?
Again, I'm writing this with innocence and just wanted to have a good, light hearted conversation.