Outdoor wedding....stressed!!!

carebearlovebernie · July 2014

LOL we love it when you biddies get all worked up over nothing!

carebearlovebernie · July 2014

No hard feelings. Bye!

southernbelle0915 · July 2014

carebearlovebernie said:

I know that I and a lot of my friends would not mind sitting on picnic blankets! I really like the folksy feel of it! Again, no money for extra seats, and no money to borrow from other areas. It's all pretty bare bones to begin with! No flowers, the WP gifts are their jewelry so can't nix that, just craft beer!

You don't know that. I am a laid back person. I like picnics, going to beach, watching fireworks, etc. - all activities where I sit on the ground on a blanket. I love these things.

I do not like wearing a dress to a wedding and being asked to sit on a blanket. WTF.

[Deleted User] · July 2014

Maggie0829 said:

adk19 said:

Good job quoting, Maggie. She DD'd, called us divas, and went running back to WW.

Yeah I am thinking this was a set-up type of post. I guess WB needed some new "drama from TK" to gossip about.

Which is the very reason I stopped visiting those forums.

[Deleted User] · July 2014

In all seriousness though, how is anyone who said you needed a chair for every butt a diva. Shouldn't the comfort of all your guests be a priority? You make sure your guests are taken care and properly hosted.

misshart00 · July 2014

So who has a link to them laughing at how much we get worked up?

Maggie0829 · July 2014

carebearlovebernie said:

LOL we love it when you biddies get all worked up over nothing!

OMG you are just so cool! **eye roll** Do you Bee's have nothing better to do?

ShesSoCold · July 2014

Am I missing the posts about "getting worked up"? A question was asked, and several answers were posted. I highly doubt anyone is losing sleep over this.

SeaCaptainOtter · July 2014

My step-sister did this exact thing, minus the blankets. She provided benches for about 25 of the 50 people she invited to her beach wedding. Being stared at by people who had to stand through a 30 minute ceremony and then wait, still standing, for the receiving line to move through was not fun. Not much about that wedding was fun.

JCbride2015 · July 2014

I get to use my favorite DD puppy gif!

lyndausvi · July 2014

I'm old so who wants to give me a vocabulary lesson on new meaning of words? ----------------------------------------------------- So far I've got answering a question = "getting worked up" and saying all guests need a chair = diva. Anymore that I'm missing?

Maggie0829 · July 2014

@yndausvi - I am pretty sure saying "your idea is rude" = "you all are bitches"

misshart00 · July 2014

I've got to admit though, not a terrible troll. She didn't bring up every hot button issue right at once but slowly interjected it.

Where you failed though is immediately giving yourself up. You should've let it go on longer, put in a couple more issues, let everyone get crazy "worked up." Then y'all could've talked about more on wedding bee.

JCbride2015 · July 2014

lyndausvi said:

I'm old so who wants to give me a vocabulary lesson on new meaning of words? ----------------------------------------------------- So far I've got answering a question = "getting worked up" and saying all guests need a chair = diva. Anymore that I'm missing?

IKR. How diva those Knotties must be, insisting on providing chairs for all their guests. What divas!

In all seriousness. I am 26 and look perfectly healthy. But I have a serious hip injury and I would have a really hard time standing on uneven ground for the length of a ceremony, especially in heels (yeah I know I don't have to wear heels, but I would if I was going to an event like a wedding where I expected a seat). If OP is real, she can't possibly really know if all her guests are "able-bodied."

Cookie Pusher · July 2014

What a lame troll. No mention of potlucks, cash bars, honeyfunds, dollar dances, or PPDs? I'm disappointed. And no one said they felt sorry for our FIs/DHs!!!

southernbelle0915 · July 2014

carebearlovebernie said:

LOL we love it when you biddies get all worked up over nothing!

LOL ZOMG! - nothing better than a ding dong ditch from WW. A public display of immaturity - thanks! Now if I'm a lurker, do I trust advice from someone who does that? Or someone who actually understands wedding etiquette. Tough choice....

We love it when the hive and WW plan and promote weddings like a bunch of spoiled, special snowflakes. It's fun to imagine how much shit people talk about your crappy, rude weddings and how many bridges you burn. By all means, keep going.

AddieCake · July 2014

Too many exclamation points to be legit. Just way too "Hi there! Tell me if I'm terrible! Here's what I'm doing! "

theartistformerlyknownas · July 2014

Cookie Pusher said:

What a lame troll. No mention of potlucks, cash bars, honeyfunds, dollar dances, or PPDs? I'm disappointed. And no one said they felt sorry for our FIs/DHs!!!

Really should have thrown in "will people have room in their cars to bring their own chair AND their crock pot dish for the potluck?"

sarawifenow · July 2014

Well that was disappointing....

wrigleyville · July 2014

If one of my friends or relatives sent out an email saying, "We'd love to borrow lawn chairs for our wedding if anyone has some to spare. We'd be happy to come pick them up," I'd be perfectly happy to loan them ours. The key is that you pick them up, not make them haul them to the ceremony. There's your free option.

climbingsingle · July 2014

So. Lame.

You guys are such divas, wanting to sit in chairs and shit. Ugh.

Liatris2010 · July 2014

flantastic said:

I diva out over chairs on a regular basis.

So does she

ohannabelle · July 2014

A very disappointing troll. But by the time she turns 14, her wit will probably improve.

WildMagelet · July 2014

That was disappointing. I guess I won't suggest community centers or schools as places to call for inexpensive chairs that aren't churches.

JCbride2015 · July 2014

Musikalbunni said:

I was trying to find the link on WB, but I slowly backed away once I read a something titled, "how to ask parents for money?"

Nope!!!!!

Actually, the responses on this thread were pretty heartwarming.

"It sounds like you know the answer but you want people to tell you it’s okay for some reason. It’s not. Asking people to buy you things is always rude, even if the people are your parents and the thing is your wedding. If she wants to contribute, she will offer."

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/nice-way-to-ask-for-parents-help/#ixzz38F9VWxRp

Lizzieyounce · July 2014

Lame trolls like this make me nostalgic for Tay Prince.

At least she was an entertaining train wreck.

LDay2014 · July 2014

JCbride2015 said:

Musikalbunni said:

I was trying to find the link on WB, but I slowly backed away once I read a something titled, "how to ask parents for money?"

Nope!!!!!

Actually, the responses on this thread were pretty heartwarming.

"It sounds like you know the answer but you want people to tell you it’s okay for some reason. It’s not. Asking people to buy you things is always rude, even if the people are your parents and the thing is your wedding. If she wants to contribute, she will offer."

http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/nice-way-to-ask-for-parents-help/#ixzz38F9VWxRp

By no means am I the etiquette gods, but I tried. I tried to save their wayward souls...

RebeccaB88 · July 2014

Ahem...I'll own the diva accusation...chairs are good, because chairs.

sophhabobopha · July 2014

How DARE you ladies suggest she treat her guests well.

atlastmrsg · July 2014

carebearlovebernie said:

Umm, the jewelry is a gift because I paid for it for them!

I'm dissapointed in you all. You totally missed this one.

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