Sent out our invitations and almost immediately got at least half of the RSVP's back. I was delighted that so many people were taking the ten seconds to check yes or no, put said RSVP in the provided envelope (with stamp) and walk it to their mailbox where it came from.
Then they stopped coming in. We are still short at least 40% of the total RSVPs, and the deadline for us to get in touch with a final headcount is near.
Is it rude to personally contact everyone that hasn't RSVP'd and ask them if they're coming? I don't want them to tell me yes to appease me, then not show up because they weren't planning on coming in the first place. We just need to know so we can break out the Plan B guest list and get crackin'.
Suggestions? Better way to go about it? Help?