Hi ladies,
So I wanted to see how most ladies feel about this as I feel im being "unreasonable" and should just let things be.
My MOH and two bridesmaids are planning my bachlorette party, which I am very appreciative and grateful for.. Even way before the wedding planning began, I've said I am not the type to go "clubbing" or do anything too extravagant. My MOH is still a bit young and into the party scene, which is not a problem at all, but I've been way passed that. I have expressed that I would like to do something simple, like a wine-tasting tour or a get together with friends at someone's house but I was told that was boring. MOH tells me to relax and let her plan, but I feel she should also consider what I like and don't like!
My MOH tells me she plans on getting a room in AC (Jersey) and go to a couple of clubs. I can't help but feel a bit annoyed as she even said it herself and knows that I don't like clubs. They ask me what I would like to do, and when I tell them, they reject my ideas! So I am really at the point where I want to tell them they don't have to worry about planning anything and we can do a simple dinner. Would that be "bitchy" of me? I don't want to come across as ungrateful, but I also don't want to do anything I don't care to do.
Re: Would I be wrong?
@LondonLisa, thank you for your input! If we were to just do a dinner, I would def not attach "bachlorette party" to it and host it. One of my bridesmaids is flying up for my shower so it would be nice to have a dinner with her, another bridesmaid and my MOH. You may be right in just scraping the whole party all together. I just don't want to come across as unappreciative.
I was just in AC for a bachelorette party. We completely avoided the clubs and went to Trump's beach bar. It was a really fun time! There are a few different beach bars and they have live music, but its a band - so not sure if you feel that is different than a club (I do!). Perhaps you could ask them to do that instead of a club. If they still won't go for that, then decline the party.
Also, we stayed at the Tropicana. They have lots of fun bars that aren't "clubby". The Irish bar (can't recall the name) was really cool and it would be a great place for a night out too.