So I have been researching photographers FOREVER. It's one of the most important things to my FI and I. My mom is also a published Photog so I know that you can have beautiful photos without spending $2000 on them. Me and FI have been looking all over the place, TK, yellow pages, the bridal alliance in the county where we're getting married and I have to say that prices are outrageous to have decent photos. Yes you can find someone to do 6 hours for under $1500 but you go to the website and it looks like they haven't done a wedding since '96. UGH.
Why does it take almost $2000 to have a good quality photographer with a photojournalistic style for 8 hours, and all you want besides their time and talent is a CD or USB drive with all the photos and the print rights.
We have refrained from asking my mom because I want her to be my mom on the day of the wedding. This has been bothering me sooooo much. I've tried so hard to stay in my budget so that we can afford other things that we want. We've already compromised so much to stay in our budget and it just feels like it's not helping us at all. I'm beyond frustrated! I felt like crying because I look into a photographer (who naturally doesn't have their prices listed on the site) and I love their pics, but then I email to get their price list and I get it back and its too expensive. I keep getting shut down no matter what I try.
I know some photogs charge $800 for photos, but that only gets you 5 hours or less, and FI refuses to do a first look to cut down on cost.
SO frustrated, ready to kidnap a photographer!
Ok rant is over, I will finish my glass of wine.
ETA - TK ate my paragraphs