So I was going to respond in the other thread about how I want a kid, but FI is on the fence, leaning toward no. It was something I was willing to live with, as being with FI was more important to me than having a hypothetical little person. We both agreed awhile ago that we would address it down the line and FI even agreed that he would go to couples counseling (not to be pressured into being a dad, but to make sure we communicated and were both looking at the other's side).
It's something I've been thinking about a lot since this morning, when I randomly threw up. I haven't been feeling well for about a week and a half, so I had scheduled a visit to the doctor (I hadn't been feeling at all pukey, though, so I was taken aback by the vomit). Anyway, just in case, I had her run a pregnancy test. I'm totally preggers guys.
I did miss a pill about two weeks ago, but I was out of town and didn't see FI again until a week ago, so I didn't think anything of it.
FI took it well, and it turns out he had decided that, if I absolutely had to have a kid, that we could do it, but this definitely isn't the way he wanted it to go down. I'm kinda freaked out, but also kinda happy. It hasn't quite sunk in yet (does it ever?). It's very early, so obviously we're only telling a few people, but I thought it was interesting how my initial thoughts on the other thread became pretty much moot. Weirdness.