So, one of the couples I invited to our wedding has recently sent in their decline to attend the wedding. My brother told me last Sunday at my wedding shower that the husband of the couple wants to attend but that the wife is boycotting because she disagrees with the wedding being on a Friday stating that it is rude to have a wedding on a weekday.
However, my brother explained that he plans on attending anyway without his wife.. So, I called him and asked if he will be coming or not so that I can let my caterer know to set a place for you and to ensure you have food and drink available to you. He explained he is not sure but will most likely attend the ceremony.. I kept asking if he will be attending the reception and he said no. I don't want to be rude, but I don't feel comfortable paying for his possible attendance at the reception if he decides to stay after the ceremony.
I've also caught wind that there will be some other folks who were not invited who plan to crash the wedding after the ceremony and I don't plan on paying for these folks as we can't afford it. Which unfortunately is the reason we were unable to invite these people in the first place. So, how do I explian to unvited guests they are not welcomed to stay at the reception? And no, I won't be hiring security.
Anyone experience situations like this before?