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Plus ones.

ElcaBElcaB member
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I want to reach out to a few people we are inviting to the wedding to find out the names of their plus ones. What's the best way to ask? I was thinking, "Hey John, we are getting ready to send our wedding invitations. Do you have a guest you'd like to bring, and if so, what is your guest's name?"

Yay? Nay? I feel so awkward about this part. 
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Re: Plus ones.

  • Simply FatedSimply Fated member
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    I think that sounds fine.
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  • huskypuppy14huskypuppy14 member
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    Are you giving everyone a plus one? If so you can just write "and Guest" on the envelope if you can't find out the name. They should write the name of their guest on their RSVP card.

    Also, what if they are not attending, and they know they can't come.
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  • mschristie123mschristie123 member
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    If you know of guests that are in relationships, I would absolutely call to get their SO's name for the invitation. If there are others that you are offering a plus one and you don't know if they're seeing anyone, I would just leave it as 'and guest.'
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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
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    If this isn't an SO you are inviting then I would say leave it at "and guest" they may not know this far out who they would want or could bring to your wedding.

    If they RSVP with a guest, then I would call and ask for a name when you make your seating chart.


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  • wandajune6wandajune6 member
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    We did the "and guest" when we were offering plus ones for people who were currently single.

    I'm now worrying about all of FI's people that he doesn't know a spouse's name. It's incredibly irritating but he still hasn't done his homework. He's put it off too long but they need to be figured out before we do escort cards.
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