I was wondering what experiences people have had with both Sandals and Secrets. We want a tropical AI, and are willing to spend a bit more to upgrade. So far we are thinking either Secrets Maroma or Sandals St. Lucia or Grande Antigua. There's just a lot of options and we are trying to decide what might be best. All suggestions would be welcome. Budget is probably between $6-$8k. Is a private pool worth it? Is it better to do a room that walks out onto the beach? Has anyone done Butler service and if so, how was that?