Would it be tacky to have a "greeter" with a guest list welcoming and checking off invited guests to the wedding? FI and I are afraid there may be many uninvited guests show up, so we want to avoid a train wreck. My family is telling me it's kinda tacky, while his family is saying they think it will be necessary. What do you all think?
Re: Greeter/Door Person
::cedricvoice:: I wish a guest would...
I suppose the one hitch could be a reception where there is no seating chart and the menu is buffet.
Out of curiosity, I've always wanted to know, how you have the person that you assign to do this tell the difference between guests who were uninvited and didn't rsvp so you didn't count em or folk who don't have any business being there at all because they were never on your list. How does that work? Anybody? Are you okay with invited non rsvp'ers attending? Again, this is a question for any bridey
1. Well we're invited so she already counted us as yeses.
2. I don't need to return it, she knows we're coming
3. I got all the details, I read the invitation (<-huh?)
4. I didn't know if we'd be able to make it until today
real conversations with real wedding guests. if you've ever said numbers 2 or 4, kill yaself.