Ok lets see if I can explain this properly. Lets start here, I am marrying a retired Marine this November. We have lost most of our grandparents and are planning to do a memorial table for them. We would also like to add something to the memorial table to rember all of those who have "given all". This is extreamly extreamly important to me. FH and his best man can very very close back in 05. FH lost one of his best friends as well. I want to make sure that EVERYONE knows what this memorial means. Do any of you ladies have any ideas for something that will be meaningful and practical with out being tacky?