I want to add that I can finish several times - DH does enjoy getting me different ways (hands, oral, toy) before going in. It's nice that he makes it a priority (Wife will come not one, but at least 3 times!)
If he would just stay hard, I bet I could grind on him and come til next week.
I want to add that I can finish several times - DH does enjoy getting me different ways (hands, oral, toy) before going in. It's nice that he makes it a priority (Wife will come not one, but at least 3 times!)
If he would just stay hard, I bet I could grind on him and come til next week.
Confession 1: I'm pretty orgasmic. I'm a multiple girl. Multiple times in same session also. I can even sit quietly and just think about certain things for a while and make it happen. Oh the power of my mind! Of course, it does take a while to think things through to completion. It's not like I can sit here at my desk and within minutes I'm having a moment. If that were the case, I'd have to keep my door closed.
Confession 2: When FI and I were long distance, I bought a kit to make a replica of him. The next trip out to see him we had a hotel room and made a mini-FI. It was great fun and I got some major use out of "him" when we were apart. It was a pretty hard (hee hee) mold and wasn't always the most comfortable but there was something about knowing it was him.
I want to add that I can finish several times - DH does enjoy getting me different ways (hands, oral, toy) before going in. It's nice that he makes it a priority (Wife will come not one, but at least 3 times!)
If he would just stay hard, I bet I could grind on him and come til next week.
Confession 1: I'm pretty orgasmic. I'm a multiple girl. Multiple times in same session also. I can even sit quietly and just think about certain things for a while and make it happen. Oh the power of my mind! Of course, it does take a while to think things through to completion. It's not like I can sit here at my desk and within minutes I'm having a moment. If that were the case, I'd have to keep my door closed.
Confession 2: When FI and I were long distance, I bought a kit to make a replica of him. The next trip out to see him we had a hotel room and made a mini-FI. It was great fun and I got some major use out of "him" when we were apart. It was a pretty hard (hee hee) mold and wasn't always the most comfortable but there was something about knowing it was him.
this is where we are.. He wont let himself finish til he has at least three out of me.. but I am super easy too ... and his favorite foreplay is watching me with my glass friend.
I want to add that I can finish several times - DH does enjoy getting me different ways (hands, oral, toy) before going in. It's nice that he makes it a priority (Wife will come not one, but at least 3 times!)
If he would just stay hard, I bet I could grind on him and come til next week.
Confession 1: I'm pretty orgasmic. I'm a multiple girl. Multiple times in same session also. I can even sit quietly and just think about certain things for a while and make it happen. Oh the power of my mind! Of course, it does take a while to think things through to completion. It's not like I can sit here at my desk and within minutes I'm having a moment. If that were the case, I'd have to keep my door closed.
Confession 2: When FI and I were long distance, I bought a kit to make a replica of him. The next trip out to see him we had a hotel room and made a mini-FI. It was great fun and I got some major use out of "him" when we were apart. It was a pretty hard (hee hee) mold and wasn't always the most comfortable but there was something about knowing it was him.
H and I tried that - the "clone-a-willy"? It failed miserably. Probably partially because I still lived at home so we were in my mom's kitchen and terrified that someone would come him.
I want to add that I can finish several times - DH does enjoy getting me different ways (hands, oral, toy) before going in. It's nice that he makes it a priority (Wife will come not one, but at least 3 times!)
If he would just stay hard, I bet I could grind on him and come til next week.
Confession 1: I'm pretty orgasmic. I'm a multiple girl. Multiple times in same session also. I can even sit quietly and just think about certain things for a while and make it happen. Oh the power of my mind! Of course, it does take a while to think things through to completion. It's not like I can sit here at my desk and within minutes I'm having a moment. If that were the case, I'd have to keep my door closed.
Confession 2: When FI and I were long distance, I bought a kit to make a replica of him. The next trip out to see him we had a hotel room and made a mini-FI. It was great fun and I got some major use out of "him" when we were apart. It was a pretty hard (hee hee) mold and wasn't always the most comfortable but there was something about knowing it was him.
H and I tried that - the "clone-a-willy"? It failed miserably. Probably partially because I still lived at home so we were in my mom's kitchen and terrified that someone would come him.
-------------------------- We tried it too. But it came out so... Bumpy? Those pieces of the material are sharp! Idk why it didn't come out smooth like skin. But it hurt SO bad even with a condom on, plus it felt bigger than DH and it really hurt size wise. We really messed that shit up. I think we threw it away.
I'm in the multi-orgasm club too. FI always makes sure I come more than once before he decides to finish. Which is awesome, especially since he believes that the organs he gives me during foreplay don't count towards the making me come while we have sex. So often he makes me cum a few times before hand and then a few times during. Then I grab a towel to clean up a little and fall asleep.
Oh and FI is always up for period sex. He doesn't care.
Seriously pissed that my phone hasn't let me log on and this is the first chance I've had to get on the computer and dedicate time to 10 pages of sex!
Oral - Love giving and receiving. Hate 69 because no position doesn't end with my neck all tweaked out. I have TMJ so giving oral usually leads to my jaw locked up for awhile, but somehow that doesn't discourage me. If it goes to the end I always swallow, always have..I feel like it would actually be in my mouth longer if I spit.
Anal - done it, not a huge fan since FI is a little....above average. once we get going and I get over the initial "this fucking hurts" I do enjoy it.
Shower - love bathtub/hotub sex, but shower sex almost never works. I'm 5'9" FI is 5'10" so it SHOULD work except all my height is in my legs so my vag is somewhere around his belly button and we can't find a position that works.
Period sex - I have an IUD and rarely get my period and when I do it's so light we usually only find out because we just had sex.
Masturbation - love it and like others have said the hitachi magic wand is AMAZING!
Toys - love them. we have an ottoman with secret storage that is full of them. Sadly we don't play with them as much lately, because when we do it turns into 2 hour marathon sex. Every time we have gone on vacation we find a sex shop and add to the collection and then play in the hotel room!
Condoms - hate, hate, hate them! I've jokingly told FI that the main reason I was stoked to find him was I never have to use a condom again. Confession-I actually have never used a condom with FI, we bought them the first time we were together and then things happened and we realized we never grabbed them out of my purse. After that we figured the damage was already done, I have an IUD so fuck it.
Multi-orgasms - I usually do because FI last forever, he can go again pretty quickly or will stop mid orgasm to keep going. It's actually weird because I can feel when he starts and stops.
Porn - both of us watch it on our own and occasionally will send each other links. Once in awhile when we are up late drinking I'll sit in his lap and we'll watch it together, oddly it's usually totally innocent like we're just watching a movie...at least until we get into the bedroom.
Pegging - FI refuses to get a strap on, but the deal with anal was unless I got to do him to it wasn't happening. He actually enjoys it as long as its just the various vibrators, butt plugs, and other things from our toy box. He also really likes rim jobs.
I am so nervous to 69, but FI has always wanted to try it. I hate the idea of sitting on his face and having my bum in his eyes and nose area.
I'm good having period sex, but only in the shower. FI and I don't do it that often, though.
I climaxed twice while masturbating once, but after one O I'm usually done.
Porn, not OK in my current relationship because of FI's sex addiction. But, when masturbating, it does do the trick for me to get me in the mood and out of my head. I prefer just pin up style pictures or videos made for women (ie. a punk-ish style woman and a femme woman together).
I am so nervous to 69, but FI has always wanted to try it. I hate the idea of sitting on his face and having my bum in his eyes and nose area.
I'm good having period sex, but only in the shower. FI and I don't do it that often, though.
I climaxed twice while masturbating once, but after one O I'm usually done.
Porn, not OK in my current relationship because of FI's sex addiction. But, when masturbating, it does do the trick for me to get me in the mood and out of my head. I prefer just pin up style pictures or videos made for women (ie. a punk-ish style woman and a femme woman together).
We almost always 69 at some point. I'm a smell-worrier and have to feel fresh or I can't get in the mood so I always either freshen up or take a quick shower. FI is amazing with his tongue so it doesn't take long for me to forget about the view he must have and get into it.
Of course, if the view was bad, he wouldn't want to do it right? Take the plunge and go for it!
Since I spend so much time coming on his face, I never mind when he comes on mine. I figure it's fair.
I forgot about porn..... Ok so FI will watch porn if I'm not around and he needs to take care of himself. I've seen a couple videos with him, but watching porn just isn't my thing. I do however read porn, or literotic if you prefer that term. I also have written a story myself.
I forgot about porn..... Ok so FI will watch porn if I'm not around and he needs to take care of himself. I've seen a couple videos with him, but watching porn just isn't my thing. I do however read porn, or literotic if you prefer that term. I also have written a story myself.
I'm open about watching porn with FI but depends which ones. I'm also a porn masturbator. Can't do it without some porn. Unless there's a magical shower jet/head somewhere.
I forgot about porn..... Ok so FI will watch porn if I'm not around and he needs to take care of himself. I've seen a couple videos with him, but watching porn just isn't my thing. I do however read porn, or literotic if you prefer that term. I also have written a story myself.
I'm open about watching porn with FI but depends which ones. I'm also a porn masturbator. Can't do it without some porn. Unless there's a magical shower jet/head somewhere.
Yea... whenever I watch porn it's just never as good as its supposed to be. In my head though, when I read it, it just is better than in real life. But that's probably because I've always been really good ato reading things and thenjoy visualizing themail in my head.... this is also probably because I'm a writer. I do masterurbate when I read it though.
Hmm.. No porn for me or DH. I would be crushed if he watched porn.
When I first met him, I found pictures on his computer. We had a long discussion, and 6 years later I trust that he hasn't looked at it since.
Why should he when he has a sexy woman who will wear whatever he wants and do whatever he wants whenever he wants? I sext him and create images for him to think about of me and him.
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
OMG right??
I've never been able to get into watching other people do it. Either I don't find them attractive from the get-go, or there's at minimum one aspect that bugs me. Nails, terrible acting, weird tattoos that have spelling errors etc.
FI and I are going to have a sex party tonight - finish watching that bargain-basement porn DVD I bought a couple of months ago, drink wine, and go at it.
I like watching porn with my partner - I don't care if he watches it alone either, and I'm sure he wouldn't care if I did - if it makes us horny, then our partner is there to take care of scratching the itch.
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
OMG right??
I've never been able to get into watching other people do it. Either I don't find them attractive from the get-go, or there's at minimum one aspect that bugs me. Nails, terrible acting, weird tattoos that have spelling errors etc.
So glad I'm not alone. FI was making fun of me a few weeks ago because I kept commenting on the fact that one of the girls had a tattoo that was said "belive".
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
OMG right??
I've never been able to get into watching other people do it. Either I don't find them attractive from the get-go, or there's at minimum one aspect that bugs me. Nails, terrible acting, weird tattoos that have spelling errors etc.
On the rare occasions that I actually want to watch porn, I almost always have to mute it because the WILDLY OBVIOUS fake O sounds irritate the ever-loving hell out of me.
One of my friends was seriously grossed out when I said I would kiss FI immediately after he goes down on m. I mean, hell, he'll kiss me after I give him a BJ (and I swallow) - what's the difference?
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
OMG right??
I've never been able to get into watching other people do it. Either I don't find them attractive from the get-go, or there's at minimum one aspect that bugs me. Nails, terrible acting, weird tattoos that have spelling errors etc.
On the rare occasions that I actually want to watch porn, I almost always have to mute it because the WILDLY OBVIOUS fake O sounds irritate the ever-loving hell out of me.
@beethery yea.... I have to have it muted too. The dialogue is what bothers me though, and the fake groans/ squeaks/ whatever those are supposed to be.
One of my friends was seriously grossed out when I said I would kiss FI immediately after he goes down on m. I mean, hell, he'll kiss me after I give him a BJ (and I swallow) - what's the difference?
We don't kiss after going down on each other. If it was just a little during foreplay, it's fine, but otherwise I avoid it.
One of my friends was seriously grossed out when I said I would kiss FI immediately after he goes down on m. I mean, hell, he'll kiss me after I give him a BJ (and I swallow) - what's the difference?
I'm not a huge fan. I don't need to know what I taste like. But in the heat of the moment, okay.
And H will not kiss me after a BJ when he cums. Possibly because I kind of smack my lips and mouth around pretending that there's still some in my mouth.
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
OMG right??
I've never been able to get into watching other people do it. Either I don't find them attractive from the get-go, or there's at minimum one aspect that bugs me. Nails, terrible acting, weird tattoos that have spelling errors etc.
Oh god the tattoos! I judge the tattoos so hard. Or really bad tan lines. Like dude, you take off your clothes for a living, go to a tanning bed and get naked, alright?
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
A friend of mine does a lot of porn professionally. The way she explained it, a lot of girls do girl-girl stuff because their boyfriends don't find it as threatening as sex on camera with a guy. It also tends to pay less than girl-boy stuff. I'm guessing it has something to do with supply and demand. Not sure.
Anyway, she's bi and tends to prefer women to men but avoids girl-girl on film unless the money is amazing. She complains that it's hard to fake an amazing time with a girl who's afraid of touching another girl. She's talked about how guys also have much lower standards for girl-girl action. I never thought about it before I met her but it made sense- even when I was sleeping with women, seeing it on camera was even less appealing than seeing boy-girl stuff.
With the caveat that I've probably spent way too much time managing my friend's various sites as well as sites for her friends, I find that most porn just makes me sad.
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
OMG right??
I've never been able to get into watching other people do it. Either I don't find them attractive from the get-go, or there's at minimum one aspect that bugs me. Nails, terrible acting, weird tattoos that have spelling errors etc.
Oh god the tattoos! I judge the tattoos so hard. Or really bad tan lines. Like dude, you take off your clothes for a living, go to a tanning bed and get naked, alright?
@MagicInk I am curious--and you don't have to answer if you don't want to--but do you and your FI ever watch straight porn?
We don't watch often at all, but we have watched a little girl-on-girl or 3-way (girl-girl-guy) stuff...just wondering if it goes both ways.
We watch porn together but most girl-girl porn is so fucking bad. I'm sorry, no. That isn't how lesbian sex works. It's so obvious that it's just to entertain the straight male fantasy of what two women banging looks like. Plus the nails scare me.
It takes awhile to find something we like, but when we do, we watch it. A lot.
A friend of mine does a lot of porn professionally. The way she explained it, a lot of girls do girl-girl stuff because their boyfriends don't find it as threatening as sex on camera with a guy. It also tends to pay less than girl-boy stuff. I'm guessing it has something to do with supply and demand. Not sure.
Anyway, she's bi and tends to prefer women to men but avoids girl-girl on film unless the money is amazing. She complains that it's hard to fake an amazing time with a girl who's afraid of touching another girl. She's talked about how guys also have much lower standards for girl-girl action. I never thought about it before I met her but it made sense- even when I was sleeping with women, seeing it on camera was even less appealing than seeing boy-girl stuff.
With the caveat that I've probably spent way too much time managing my friend's various sites as well as sites for her friends, I find that most porn just makes me sad.
Girl on girl porn drives me insane when they just barely lick each other's good bits with the tips of their tongues and then they act like it's the Holy Grail Of All Orgasms. Come on, that is not how it's done at all. GET IN THERE!!!
One of my friends was seriously grossed out when I said I would kiss FI immediately after he goes down on m. I mean, hell, he'll kiss me after I give him a BJ (and I swallow) - what's the difference?
I do it too. He thinks it's sexy if I get to taste myself from his lips.
Re: It's TMI time (there is so much more than BC going on in here)
If he would just stay hard, I bet I could grind on him and come til next week.
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We tried it too. But it came out so... Bumpy? Those pieces of the material are sharp! Idk why it didn't come out smooth like skin. But it hurt SO bad even with a condom on, plus it felt bigger than DH and it really hurt size wise. We really messed that shit up. I think we threw it away.
Oh and FI is always up for period sex. He doesn't care.
Wowza this thread!!!!
Yea... whenever I watch porn it's just never as good as its supposed to be. In my head though, when I read it, it just is better than in real life. But that's probably because I've always been really good ato reading things and thenjoy visualizing themail in my head.... this is also probably because I'm a writer. I do masterurbate when I read it though.
When I first met him, I found pictures on his computer. We had a long discussion, and 6 years later I trust that he hasn't looked at it since.
Why should he when he has a sexy woman who will wear whatever he wants and do whatever he wants whenever he wants? I sext him and create images for him to think about of me and him.
FI and I are going to have a sex party tonight - finish watching that bargain-basement porn DVD I bought a couple of months ago, drink wine, and go at it.
I like watching porn with my partner - I don't care if he watches it alone either, and I'm sure he wouldn't care if I did - if it makes us horny, then our partner is there to take care of scratching the itch.
I'm the fuck out.
@beethery yea.... I have to have it muted too. The dialogue is what bothers me though, and the fake groans/ squeaks/ whatever those are supposed to be.
Anyway, she's bi and tends to prefer women to men but avoids girl-girl on film unless the money is amazing. She complains that it's hard to fake an amazing time with a girl who's afraid of touching another girl. She's talked about how guys also have much lower standards for girl-girl action. I never thought about it before I met her but it made sense- even when I was sleeping with women, seeing it on camera was even less appealing than seeing boy-girl stuff.
With the caveat that I've probably spent way too much time managing my friend's various sites as well as sites for her friends, I find that most porn just makes me sad.
We don't watch often at all, but we have watched a little girl-on-girl or 3-way (girl-girl-guy) stuff...just wondering if it goes both ways.
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