My FH and I each have one girl (our flower girls). We were thinking, instead of a large head table, we would do a smaller head table with ourselves and our two girls. What are you thoughts on that idea? He doesn't like the sweetheart table idea and I'm not too keen on the large table with our BP and their SOs. It becomes too large and too crowded. I also don't like the idea of having a large head table with only our BP, while their SOs are placed among the other guests. It just seems awkward if you're the SO and you don't really know any of the other guests. What is everyone else planning on doing for their wedding or have done in the past?