I need a new purse something FIERCE. I don't even carry a purse right now, because the only one I own looks like absolute shit. It was cute enough when it was new, but it was a cheap purse and is torn to pieces.
I'm thinking about asking for one for Christmas/getting one with Christmas money. So I go to look at Dooney & Bourke and Coach, because I know those are two quality brands - my mom had two Coach purses and a D&B purse, all older than I am, that were in perfect condition. She still has the wallet that matches her D&B purse, in fact, because she was using it the day the house burned.
And, of course, having never spent more than $20 on a purse, I promptly shit my pants (figuratively) when I see how much theirs are.
Tell me that asking for a good-quality Coach or D&B purse is a good decision, or either give me good-quality options for less so I don't feel like a spoiled brat. I don't even want one of the ones that are, like, emblazoned "LOOK AT ME I'M A COACH BAG," I just want something simple, big enough to tote my shit, and tidy-looking that will last me more than three months. I don't swap purses around because it just pisses me off, so I won't be buying more than one bag. I just... I don't know that I can justify spending that kind of money on a bag, period.
So essentially what I want is for YOU to justify it FOR ME.

Re: Related to the wardrobe discussion... bags.
You know what brand I love? London Fog! http://www.londonfog.com/bags/handbags.html
I like that they are affordable and they last for a long time. TJ Maxx often sells them if you want to even go for less.
My current bag is the brown one in the middle.
I have a Fossil bag that I got on ebags.com. It was expensive, but I really like it. The leather is so soft!
I love Kate Spade but usually won't shell out that much for a bag, but I've seen that Nordstrom Rack usually has them for a good price.
I'm a sucker for Coach bags. I love the style and mine hold up pretty well also. I'm fortunate enough to live near a Coach outlet and I have a TJ Maxx in town. My next splurge is going to be a Michael Kors bag though. Maybe I can convince FI to get me one for my birthday/Christmas.
@SaraBrideSoon I never thought about London Fog for bags. Those are gorgeous!
I want all of those. Hurry up wedding so I can start to buy awesome things again!
I'm the fuck out.
I like my Michael Kors bag, and I reeeally want a Tory Burch tote. I love her stuff, and my wallet hates me for it.
I'm the fuck out.
I'm the fuck out.
I've had Dooney & Bourke bags that last beautifully and showed wear right away. I had a Marc by Marc Jacobs that I loved for years but all of the hardware fell off (clasps do matter...) and another that I'm carrying 8 years later. My current favorites are Cole Haan and Michael Kors.
Focus on designs and features that fit with your lifestyle. For example, I'm hard on bags and love feet that protect them when they land on the ground. I also know that fabric gets pulled and suede looks crappy right away when I carry a bag. Shiny leather scratches. Good quality fabrics and sturdy leathers are best.
Also, plan for the future and taste. How many people are still carrying their Murikami (or knock off Murikama) Vuitton bags?
I'm the fuck out.