African American Weddings

Panic - RSVP

The wedding is in 6 days. We have only 25% of our responses. We have the same # of people who have invited themselves. So, I am off in limbo about 50% of our guests. Some people just old me verbally. I am phone tagging the guests who have not RSVP'd.

Re: Panic - RSVP

  • Oh my goodness.  I would be hot to have to make so many follow up phone calls.  How many calls do you have to make?  And do you have anyone helping you?   



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  • We are having a small wedding so I only had to make 40 phone calls. Perhaps I should have asked FI to do some, oh well. He actually commented that I am doing such a great job he just realized how close it is. he felt like we had more time. Nope. ... - ... I feel better now that I took one day of relaxation. I made sure everyone knew, successfully. I feel lucky that we did things the way we did. Our engagement party was a surprise party for our guests. They rolled in one by one and we announced as each arrived. Anyone who didn't make it got a phone call within 12 hours of the party. Fortunately, everybody was expecting something offbeat and already had our URL. It did perplex me that RSVP's would say "so&so RSVP'd but was never invited". ... - ... OMG. I am so wiped out. I am so glad we're in the home stretch. I ran contingency plans too. We had to execute some of them. By Wednesday there should be nothing left to do but mani/pedi, pre-Cana, bachelorette, wedding and honeymoon.
    tirathemrs
  • GO YOU!
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    lavasca
  • @m1ssJ - Perfect plan.  :-)



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    lavasca
  • ion even care any more lol.... i need to make calls this week 
    sigh.... 
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  • M1SsJ - thank you so much!!!!
  • lavasca Girl i pray it all works out... i had my share of those kind of problems but i got in my idk who dont make it mood and it all worked out...

    M1ssJ you are totally awesome!! Great advice

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  • J that was some awesome advice.  I'm scribbling right now!  ;)

    lol @ Vee just tapping out
  • Lol *curtsies*
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  • We just wrapped up our honeymoon! We had the chapel exactly at capacity!
    SenecafM1ssJ
  • @lavasca - That's awesome and congratulations!  :-)



    Love is the ultimate superpower.   
    It can make you weak and strong simultaneously.  



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