This past June, we lost my brother and my mother. My sister is getting married in less than two days, and this has certainly created a bit of a hole in her heart. I've been trying to help where I can when it comes to the loss, but of course there is only so much I can do to try and make things "right". There will be a memorial set up in their honor, but there was something she mentioned to me this evening that I had not yet thought about. When I was given away at my wedding in March, my father replied with "her mother and I". Is there any wording that anyone can think of or has heard that would incorporate my late mother without completely changing the tone of the ceremony to something depressing? This detail had not yet crossed my mind and she revealed to me tonight that it's been bothering her. Please help!