Well, I became one of the brides that have always irked me and I want to just tuck my tail in shame. DH and I got married a month a half ago and I've just gotten around to writing thank-you's and getting them in the mail. I didn't mean to send them out so late, but we actually just picked them up from my mother's this past weekend. Long story short, we had a destination wedding and my mother took most of the presents home with her, and DH parents took a few gifts home with them, as we were leaving for the HM after the wedding and they wouldn't fit in our car. Well we got back from the HM and then it was two weeks of moving and relocating to where DH lives. This is still a few hours from my mother's and in the hustle and bustle of getting moved and settled and starting a new job, we just have not had time to pick everything up. I feel terrible that it has taken this long to get everything unpacked and get cards done. I know it's a silly fear, but I'm worried that our friends and family are side-eyeing us. Should I say anything in our cards? Am I way behind on things or do you think most people will still be upset that they've gone out this late?