I'm the MOH for my BFF and she's having a very small ceremony and only inviting a few friends, and the rest will be family. I want to plan her a bridal shower, but there just wouldn't be enough people to go if only wedding guests were invited (none of the women in her family are in the area, so they won't be there either) If she specifically asks for no gifts is this okay or still tacky? Really, she wants to be able to celebrate getting married with the those friends even though her budget/venue is small. Are the rules different for a bachelorette? Help!