We are paying for most of the wedding ourselves. With that being said, we are trying to figure out what type of bar to have. I refuse to have a cash bar but I feel like a limited bar, where we pay for wine, beer and a signature drink is enough. My fiance says it is cheesey to only offer that and that we have to pay for an open bar. We aren't on a super tight budget but I don't feel like I need to provide everything under the sun to drink. Anyone else having this issue?