I need help, ladies! This is keeping me up at night...
I'm giving the majority of my guests a +1, with the exception of one of my fiance's close friends because I absolutely DESPISE his girlfriend. My family & I are paying for about 90% of the wedding expenses, so I feel I should get a say in who gets to attend my wedding, especially if it's someone that makes my blood boil at the thought of me hearing her name, right?
Out of common courtesy and to avoid awkward situations, I'm not inviting any of my exes. Now, let me explain why I hate her so much.
My fiance and I both studied at the same university. When he first arrived on campus a few years ago, he met this girl through marching band and they would hang out together, sometimes just them two. My fiance never told me about her until I saw the texts on his phone from this girl saying "when are you picking me up" blah blah blah. He claims nothing happened, but it put a huge stress on our relationship, we broke up temporarily and went to counseling over it. She was single at the time, so I had my suspicions. I gave him an ultimatum, he had to stop talking to her or I would leave him. And he had a REALLY hard time choosing. (This was after we had been dating for 3 years)
So, she finally got a boyfriend and it's one of my fiance's best friends. We already gave him a save-the-date and he'll get the invitation pretty soon. How do I make it clear that the invitation is JUST for him? What do I do if he invites her?!