I already have a big bridal party with a maid of honor and SEVEN bridesmaids. It would have been fairly normal sized but FI insisted his two sister be bridesmaids too. Fine.
So every time the topic of the size of the wedding party comes up he rolls his eyes and makes comments about how many bridesmaids I have (to which I tell him if it's a problem he can take his sisters out...) Tonight he texts me and says..."S is a bridesmaid right?"
Um, no. And he knows shes not. So he asks if we can make her a bridesmaid "Because K (her SO) is a groomsman and I've been friends with her since I was a kid!"
Buddy I don't care if you've been friends with her since you were a sperm cell. I'm not expanding this circus of a wedding party any more, especially given his attitude about it. I thought I was really good about putting in his sisters (especially because one of them has been nasty to me more than once and I dread seeing her because of her attitude), but this? No way. No. Way. He's really pushing for it too and I'm worried he'll ask her anyway despite my capital N-O.
Sorry I just needed to vent >:(