Shit. Now I'm wishing I had some done. Is it too late?
So here's why I'm not concerned about H "leaking" sexy photos of me. We were both nude models at one time or another in art school. We both have sexier photos of us and really weird photos of us, as well as drawings, out there somewhere. Fully nude and in weird costumes.
If he tried to embarrass me, I would 1. laugh because I don't regret college life 2. Probably be impressed by how skinny and perky I was 3. Have a lot of compromising pics of him wearing a clown mask with his balls out for the world to see.
Shit. Now I'm wishing I had some done. Is it too late?
So here's why I'm not concerned about H "leaking" sexy photos of me. We were both nude models at one time or another in art school. We both have sexier photos of us and really weird photos of us, as well as drawings, out there somewhere. Fully nude and in weird costumes.
If he tried to embarrass me, I would 1. laugh because I don't regret college life 2. Probably be impressed by how skinny and perky I was 3. Have a lot of compromising pics of him wearing a clown mask with his balls out for the world to see.
Zero. Shits. Given.
Nope. DO IT.
SECONDED. anniversary or birthday or Christmas gift! There are so many poses to do to hide areas that you aren't comfortable with.
I call @Jells2dot0 forward to do some pictures with a string of pearls and a bed sheet!
I had a dear friend who was going through a nasty divorce. She arrived at her office one day to find that her soon-to-be-ex had taped her boudoir photos all over the office. I really don't think those pictures are a good idea. You never know what the future will bring. Also, I'm pretty sure that my DH's memory is more flattering than my body actually was!
This is some fucked up shit right here.
Your friend owned her fucking sexuality. She took some sexy pictures for her husband. She stood up (or laid down) and said I'm fucking hot and I'm gonna be hot for my dawn husband. She said I feel good about my body and myself and I'm gonna own that shit.
And then this mother fucking dickwad asshole said no feel bad about that. Feel like shit that you owned your sexuality. That you expressed yourself as a sexual being because you as a woman are not allowed to do that because your body is bad and shameful. Because showing it makes you fucking whore. That's what he did.
And you...your blaming your friend for trusting her husband? For sharing her body and sexuality with him? That's some fucked up shit. That's telling a rape victim not to wear a short skirt. Same dawn thing.
Yeah FI has nasty pictures of me. Hell I've been naked on art gallery walls and in artist portfolios. And I'm not gonna be ashamed other people see those. It's my body and my sexuality I'm owning and sharing. I'm not ashamed of being a sexual being or of loving my body. And no other woman should be either. Size race age scars it's all fucking beautiful. And anyone who tries to shame that out of you is fucking cunt.
*I've had a few drinks and am on mobile. Excuse any spelling mistakes please*
ZOMG guys, but my pictures might end up on the internet. Oh wait, they already are, because I signed a model release. The horror of a stranger seeing my upper thigh.
You know, I came home from this, and he had no idea. He just thought I got extra pretty for fun that day.
You know what his favorite picture is? The first one in his shirt. And one with my butt showing (I didn't give that one to you). He likes the ones with the lingerie, but they're not his favorite! Guys are so weird!
I had a dear friend who was going through a nasty divorce. She arrived at her office one day to find that her soon-to-be-ex had taped her boudoir photos all over the office. I really don't think those pictures are a good idea. You never know what the future will bring. Also, I'm pretty sure that my DH's memory is more flattering than my body actually was!
This is some fucked up shit right here.
Your friend owned her fucking sexuality. She took some sexy pictures for her husband. She stood up (or laid down) and said I'm fucking hot and I'm gonna be hot for my dawn husband. She said I feel good about my body and myself and I'm gonna own that shit.
And then this mother fucking dickwad asshole said no feel bad about that. Feel like shit that you owned your sexuality. That you expressed yourself as a sexual being because you as a woman are not allowed to do that because your body is bad and shameful. Because showing it makes you fucking whore. That's what he did.
And you...your blaming your friend for trusting her husband? For sharing her body and sexuality with him? That's some fucked up shit. That's telling a rape victim not to wear a short skirt. Same dawn thing.
Yeah FI has nasty pictures of me. Hell I've been naked on art gallery walls and in artist portfolios. And I'm not gonna be ashamed other people see those. It's my body and my sexuality I'm owning and sharing. I'm not ashamed of being a sexual being or of loving my body. And no other woman should be either. Size race age scars it's all fucking beautiful. And anyone who tries to shame that out of you is fucking cunt.
*I've had a few drinks and am on mobile. Excuse any spelling mistakes please*
I had a dear friend who was going through a nasty divorce. She arrived at her office one day to find that her soon-to-be-ex had taped her boudoir photos all over the office. I really don't think those pictures are a good idea. You never know what the future will bring. Also, I'm pretty sure that my DH's memory is more flattering than my body actually was!
This is some fucked up shit right here.
Your friend owned her fucking sexuality. She took some sexy pictures for her husband. She stood up (or laid down) and said I'm fucking hot and I'm gonna be hot for my dawn husband. She said I feel good about my body and myself and I'm gonna own that shit.
And then this mother fucking dickwad asshole said no feel bad about that. Feel like shit that you owned your sexuality. That you expressed yourself as a sexual being because you as a woman are not allowed to do that because your body is bad and shameful. Because showing it makes you fucking whore. That's what he did.
And you...your blaming your friend for trusting her husband? For sharing her body and sexuality with him? That's some fucked up shit. That's telling a rape victim not to wear a short skirt. Same dawn thing.
Yeah FI has nasty pictures of me. Hell I've been naked on art gallery walls and in artist portfolios. And I'm not gonna be ashamed other people see those. It's my body and my sexuality I'm owning and sharing. I'm not ashamed of being a sexual being or of loving my body. And no other woman should be either. Size race age scars it's all fucking beautiful. And anyone who tries to shame that out of you is fucking cunt.
*I've had a few drinks and am on mobile. Excuse any spelling mistakes please*
Omg LOVE IT. DH would totally do pictures for me.. I think. Fireman sounds good. In college, I took a picture of him in black pants and a bow tie. Chip n dale dancer (or however you spell it damn phone).
Since I'm one who said I'd be worried about them getting out, I'll speak to that, cos you're right, a lot of the photos here aren't bad in terms of what you can find on the internet, and in some, you can't even tell if they're boudoir or just dress up nice photos. But as a teacher, I can get into a lot of trouble if something like that of me showed up. I trust DH completely, and I'd be willing to do it with a photographer I trusted. What I don't trust is files getting lost or stolen, which I know is potentially stupid to think of. But getting in front of 150+ kids aged 12-15 when they've seen photos of me in garters and bra is I think, unprofessional. I could also be in a lot of shit with my board, even though they were private photos and not released by me. I'd be a lot more likely to do it if I had a different job though, one where I wasn't responsible for the raising of teenagers. And I'm kinda jealous, cos I think it would be so much fun.
@WinstonsGirl I didn't personally take any issue with what you said. Your reasons are your own and you're entitled to them - you're not trying to force unwarranted paranoia on anyone else. A lot of people have legitimate reasons to not want pictures of them being posted anywhere, and that's fine. That's just no reason to try and shame anyone else for not having those same concerns. (Which, again, I don't think you were doing.)
Does anyone ever take pictures using film anymore? I'm just wondering if more people would do them if the files weren't digital. If people use film camera's then there's no real way for the pics to go viral unless they're scanned into a computer.
I kinda want to do this now too. I/m not sure if I ever will though. I'll ask V if he would want something like that. I do know if I do a photoshoot I'm getting a woman. I wouldn't feel conformtable with a guy.
@WinstonsGirl I didn't personally take any issue with what you said. Your reasons are your own and you're entitled to them - you're not trying to force unwarranted paranoia on anyone else. A lot of people have legitimate reasons to not want pictures of them being posted anywhere, and that's fine. That's just no reason to try and shame anyone else for not having those same concerns. (Which, again, I don't think you were doing.)
I didn't think you had taken issue, but I couldn't remember how many other people had mentioned it, so I figured I'd just give my reasons for not doing one yet. It's all good.
I had a dear friend who was going through a nasty divorce. She arrived at her office one day to find that her soon-to-be-ex had taped her boudoir photos all over the office. I really don't think those pictures are a good idea. You never know what the future will bring. Also, I'm pretty sure that my DH's memory is more flattering than my body actually was!
That's a pretty ridiculous thing to plan ahead for. If we can't trust our spouses then what's the point of even being together? He could just as easily have taken naked pictures of her sleeping or in the shower if he wanted to be an unmitigated dickbag.
This is exactly my point! If you don't do the pictures, you won't need to worry. Divorce rate is near 50% in the USA, and many of those men turn out to be dickbags. Even if you are certain that you won't be one of these couples, the future brings surprises, and not doing something that is potentially risky is wise.
Shit. Now I'm wishing I had some done. Is it too late?
So here's why I'm not concerned about H "leaking" sexy photos of me. We were both nude models at one time or another in art school. We both have sexier photos of us and really weird photos of us, as well as drawings, out there somewhere. Fully nude and in weird costumes.
If he tried to embarrass me, I would 1. laugh because I don't regret college life 2. Probably be impressed by how skinny and perky I was 3. Have a lot of compromising pics of him wearing a clown mask with his balls out for the world to see.
Re: Let's talk about boudoir shoots
SECONDED.
I call @Jells2dot0 forward to do some pictures with a string of pearls and a bed sheet!
Your friend owned her fucking sexuality. She took some sexy pictures for her husband. She stood up (or laid down) and said I'm fucking hot and I'm gonna be hot for my dawn husband. She said I feel good about my body and myself and I'm gonna own that shit.
And then this mother fucking dickwad asshole said no feel bad about that. Feel like shit that you owned your sexuality. That you expressed yourself as a sexual being because you as a woman are not allowed to do that because your body is bad and shameful. Because showing it makes you fucking whore. That's what he did.
And you...your blaming your friend for trusting her husband? For sharing her body and sexuality with him? That's some fucked up shit. That's telling a rape victim not to wear a short skirt. Same dawn thing.
Yeah FI has nasty pictures of me. Hell I've been naked on art gallery walls and in artist portfolios. And I'm not gonna be ashamed other people see those. It's my body and my sexuality I'm owning and sharing. I'm not ashamed of being a sexual being or of loving my body. And no other woman should be either. Size race age scars it's all fucking beautiful. And anyone who tries to shame that out of you is fucking cunt.
*I've had a few drinks and am on mobile. Excuse any spelling mistakes please*
I'm the fuck out.
Does anyone ever take pictures using film anymore? I'm just wondering if more people would do them if the files weren't digital. If people use film camera's then there's no real way for the pics to go viral unless they're scanned into a computer.
I'm the fuck out.