We aren't having kids at our wedding, but when the host of my bridal shower sent me the list of people she's planning on inviting, she included the children of one of my cousins.
First of all, I've never even met these kids, I don't know if there's 1, 2, or 3, or how old they are (I'm assuming up to the age of 8 maybe?). Second of all, do kids even go to bridal showers to begin with? I don't know if I've ever noticed kids running around at any bridal showers, unless maybe they're really close to the bride, which obviously these aren't. Third of all, no kids are invited to the wedding, which the host knows, but my cousin may not.
Do the rules of invite to shower = invite to wedding still apply in the case of little kids? And what is the best way to broach the topic with the host of the bridal shower?