Hello, I am newly married and I didn't get to have a weeding, or anything close to it. Our families and friends weren't present and to this day, not everyone knows we are married because I wasn't sure if I wanted to have a PPD despite being married already. I was recently considering the idea of a vow renewal after a year of marriage, because our first year has been posing a few issues and we didn't seek counseling before taking this huge step but our love has DEFINITELY grown. My question is: should I go forth and have a PPD (or a wedding ceremony) or should I just send invites to everyone for a one year vow renewal? I know most people don't renew vows after one year and my dad won't really be able to "give me away" (will he) but I want a wedding as my parents never married and neither did my husband's parents. Marriage (without kids) has been a pretty foreign thing in our families until US and I want to celebrate with everyone in breaking that chain! Please help me decide what to do. I want to have SOMETHING so please don't try to tell me to let it all go, but help me figure out the best route to go! I would greatly appreciate any help!