So my fiance and I recently went to a friend's wedding and he caught the groom in the bathroom doing some extracurricular activities. He wasn't really hiding what he was doing and went on like it was normal. We are nervous about inviting them to our wedding, at the risk of them taking drugs at our wedding. Its none of my business what they do on their own time. However, if the grrom would do it out in the open at his own wedding, why wouldn't he do it at ours? I went to college went his wife but we are not super close but still get together for events etc. What should i do? Should we invite them?