My wedding is on Halloween....less than 2 weeks. My dad has stage IV colon cancer, and he is not responding well to treatments. He has been spending more time in the hospital than out. He makes a small improvement, they send him home, and he gets set back.
I am facing the very real possibility that he may not be able to be at my wedding and I don't know what to do. I can't imagine getting married without my dad. Even though it's small (less than 50 guests), I can't move the entire wedding to the hospital. I'm wondering about maybe saying our vows in front of him earlier in the day and then continuing with the rest of the itinerary as planned. And if the unthinkable happens and he's gone by then, do we still have the wedding at all?
I am feeling so lost right now.