I was recently talking with my brother on the phone about having his (new) fiance standing up in our wedding next year and then he blurts out that he and her are planning on getting a quick marriage when he comes home for Christmas this year. My fiance and I were furious as he had previously promised he wouldn't pull any shenanigans (he's done something like this before). He is in the army and not able to be deployed until after he finishes his AIT and then moving to a new base. Even then it isn't certain (if he were for sure leaving this wouldn't have been an issue). When I had asked him what his reasons were for getting married so quickly he only mentioned that he would get paid more if he were married and his fiance would get to be on his insurance....money basically. They don't really know anything about the other and when I asked why she couldn't move to where he was (she has the $$ and ability to get a job anywhere) so they can learn to live with one another before making it permanent. He had done something similar last year while on deployment where he planned to marry another girl so she could hop on his insurance....good thing she didn't last. Are we wrong to be upset?