My fiancé is out of town working so I am planning most of the wedding myself. He's given me free reign and tells me it's my day but I do want some feedback from him about some decisions. He told me it's mostly stuff that he's not interested in and most importantly he has me! For example, cake tasting. He wants chocolate. If I like it, do it. I want it to be his day too and to be happy is I am going out of my way to do things as a surprise for him like a grooms cake and little details along the way. One thing I have definitely learned and what I love about him is this .. Don't get caught up in the details, stress on the small stuff and live in the moment. I'm a planner and over thinker a little too much sometimes!