My aunt is a very abrasive person who thinks everyone needs to know her opinion. I have lived very far away from her since I was a little girl, and we don’t ever talk. She’ll answer my Mom’s phone call once in a blue moon. I see her once every 4-5 years. She sent me a letter a few days ago expressing her “concern” about how I’m not making the “right” decision by choosing not to get married in the church under the religion of her choice, but opting instead to have a non-denominational ceremony. I found this extremely insulting, as she said she was worried for my “spiritual wellbeing”. How the do I respond to this? I am so angry!