We have 2 adult daughters that will be standing with us when we get married. One is straight One is gay. They're not really maid of honor and best man, they're just our adult children from previous relationships standing up with us.
The question is one is wearing a dress (she likes dressing up) and the other one is wearing a pants, tie and jacket (she hates dresses! and I wouldn't dream of asking her to wear one, she'd look so uncomfortable).
The one who is wearing a dress will carry a small bouquet but what should the other one have, a bouquet of flowers or a boutineer? I asked her and she said it was up to me! She's so sweet but it really doesn't matter to me, I just want her to be comfortable. So we agreed she'd think about it and we'd talk about it again in a couple of days.
Thoughts? Anyone else have a similar situation? What did you do?
We had our dream wedding in Las Vegas - 11.29.2014