This maybe long-winded and I apologize. I need advice! So I have a friend/acquaintance, whom we'll refer to as Crazypants, who is completely BSC according to everything I've learned from The Knot.
Crazypants knows boyfriend has the ring, boyfriend has not asked, and she has a dress, a venue, a bridal party, and has started DIYing a lot of things. She is requiring specific shoes and dress and has not offered to pay. She is requiring craft days. She got mad because someone has a child and has been "using her child as an excuse" to not socialize. Nevermind that the child is, in fact, a child and cannot care for itself. So this statement leads me to the "it happened to me.." part.
Crazypants and I have known each other since the beginning of summer and have hung out a number of times. I could count on one to two hands if I thought about it. We do get along very well, though we don't talk daily, and I *thought* she was a cool girl. I was asked to be a bridesmaid the other day. I said yes thinking oh, maybe, you know..she doesn't have a huge social circle and thinks highly of me or whatever. I went over to her place that same night and THEN she tells me about how aforementioned girl with the child dropped out that morning and she's been stressing about it, and I was asked later that same day. Her TEN bridesmaids were asked a month or so ago. What the actual fuck.
So I've said yes, only to realize I am a back up/filler for crazypants bridezilla in the making and I'm having a hard time stifling the...upsetness. I'm extremely busy with nursing school and do not want to waste my time and money on this shittastic event. I'm not keen on being used.
Knotties, please advise :-(