My Boyfriend and I have been together for just over 5 years now. I'm not supposed to know this but he is currently having an engagement ring made and has been planning this for a few months now with the help of his parents and younger sister. I've always wanted our anniversary date to be our wedding date, late September, and coincidentally, it will fall on a Saturday in 2016!
This is where it gets a bit complicated. His sister has just recently gotten engaged her to boyfriend of 5 years. Their anniversary is just about a week after ours. They had initially decided to set their date sometime in July 2016. This would give us 2-3 months in between their wedding and my dream date, which I thought was not ideal, but acceptable. They have now decided, and booked their church and reception venue, for the first weekend in August 2016. I know that I should be happy for them that they're one step closer, but I can't help but feel bummed and confused as to what to do.
My question is: is it wrong to still go with the date that I've wanted for so long, even though his sister's wedding will be 7 weeks earlier?