Ok so long story short: I had a falling out with a friend/cousins wife recently. We haven't spoke in a couple months. Its done. When we were close we would discuss typical girly things like "future baby names" once/if/when I have them (she has three boys already). I have had my heart set on naming my daughter should I have one after my grandmother(who isn't apart of my cousins family because I was adopted). My biological grandma and papa were a huge part of my life and so special to me. I just got a text from a mutual family member that the cousins wife who is expecting a girl is naming her daughter what else? but My grandmothers name.
Before I go any further I understand not a single person has a one of a kind name. Fine, but I have a sneaking suspicion this bitch is doing this to spite me. Not once when we spoke of baby names girls or boys over the last 4 years of the friendship we had did she mention that name as an idea. When I brought up the importance of my choice she loved that I wanted to honor my grandma that way. To take it a step further not only is she using my grandma's name but also the middle name I liked with it.
Also, of course I would have to come to an agreement with the father of my children about names. But that was just my first choice and favorite.
Ok bitch fit over. Maybe I am being to sensitive but I am a bit pissed. Thoughts?
Edit-meant to type three not two.