I've been engaged for 15 months and, as you probably would assume, have been wedding planning the whole time. I was staying stress free and being super optimistic up until, everything started to hit the fan a few months ago.
One of my best friends and bridesmaids was killed in a car accident.
Another one of my bridesmaids tried to make me invite someone I'm not friends with to my wedding (we since hashed that out).
My soon to be sister-in-law who is also a bridesmaid recently went behind my back and complained about me not picking dresses soon enough, even though I've asked her to look online at dresses or sent her pictures of dresses and all she had to say was she didn't like it or it's not her style.
I'm a very patient person, and I'm pretty good at delegating and staying relatively sane when it comes to stressful situations, but I'm at my breaking point and I don't really know what to do! Luckily my MOH has been the best and has been there for me constantly, but there's only so much she can do. I'm trying my best to make sure the dresses we pick are a good price as I know everyone can't afford to be paying $250+ on a dress (I originally said I would keep the dresses at $200 or less), and all my girls are totally different when it comes to what looks good on them, so finding something to suit everyone, or even matching colours in different styles, is hard because of lack of cooperation.
Any suggestions on how not to turn into a bridezilla???