Who wrote the rule book on what is right and what is wrong??? Like these women on TK and TheBump are just soooo rude... Im literally sick of these women and them telling you what you can and cant do with YOUR life... Who the hell are you to tell me how to handle or conduct my wedding.. If i wanted to tell everyone to bring me money instead of a gift then dangit im gonna do it and Who are you to tell me what to do or not to do for my baby.. The girl on TheBump was asking about advice for throwing her own baby shower. OMG whyyyy did these over-hormonal chicks tell her that throwing your own shower is o so tacky.. Like really who tells you what is and what isnt appropriate.. I threw my own bridal/wedding shower and i planned on throwing my own baby shower. Mind you i dont have sibling so i dont expect anyone to do it for me or even do it how i want it to be done... I just dont get it.. That just gilled my cheese (to say the least)