I'm still many months out from having to send invites- hell, I don't have to send my STDs until March or April.
That said, I'm curious about why I have to contact people who haven't returned their RSVP card once the deadline has come and gone. Why should I have to do that? Don't we just take no response to mean no they are not coming? It seems silly to have to track down grown adults.
Only reason I could MAYBE see doing this is in the off chance that someone's invite may have been lost in the mail.
Any other reason?
Etiquette-wise, am I in the wrong if I DON'T place that follow-up call once the deadline has come and gone?