OOT brides, how did you pick your DJ? I know that I don't want a traditional 'wedding' DJ with lots of cheesy music, don't want a lot of top 40 songs, etc... the DJ's I've contacted so far have seemed really pushy (or another way of looking at it is, 'on top of their sales') - I get multiple emails, phone calls every day telling me my date is almost booked up, etc... which I guess is good for business for them but doesn't give me the greatest vibe? Of all the vendors, it seems the one that makes it the hardest to check out ahead of time - and yet it can really make or break the party! Any thoughts?