I asked my cousin to marry us. I wanted him apart of the wedding but didn't want him standing on my side because I do like pictures to be uniform. And he didn't want to stand up with the guys So I asked him to marry us. I think it's fun and great we are very close and he's a great public speaker he's currently in school for politics. Our wedding isn't on a traditional base we aren't religious and don't want any type of religious ceremony also my cousin is an atheist. I'm sure some of you think this is a bit nutty because I know weddings are generally a religious type ceremony but that's not for us. So I was wondering if anyone had suggestions on what he would say or how to make it work?