Not sure where else to put this. I'm just upset and can't really vent anywhere else.
So, about a month ago, my sister asked me to be in her wedding. We really don't get along all that well but we've been working on it, at least I have. She's my sister, so I've been trying to fix our relationship. I haven't really talked to her much since she asked me. Anyway, I got a text 3 days ago saying that she and her fiance want a smaller wedding party than all the people they'd asked and she's sorry but she's un-asking me to be a bridesmaid. And, really, I get it but my feelings are still hurt. I still haven't responded to her.

And now, I haven't asked anyone to be a bridesmaid yet, my wedding isn't until December. Originally, I was going to ask her but now I'm not sure I want to. I know, I'm probably be a bitch about all this. Maybe overreacting a bit. I didn't think that I really wanted to be in her wedding that much, that I was doing it to try to repair some of the damage and be supportive. But now, I'm way more hurt than I thought I would be. And, I'm not sure what to do... Advice? Thoughts? Help?
Re: My sister kicked me out of her wedding!
I wouldn't want to ask her after this either, but weddings aren't tit-for-tat. Choose the people you feel closest to, whether that includes your sister or not.
I had a friend un-ask me to be her kid's godmother. I was incredibly hurt and we didn't speak for years.
I'd show up as a guest to her wedding and keep my mouth shut, only because any other action would reflect badly on you.
As for your own wedding, I wouldn't ask her to be a maid. It's not just about how she treated you. If she's this disorganized with her own wedding, you know you couldn't count on her to do what was needed for yours.
I also don't think you should ask her to be in your wedding, but the reason for that is not because she kicked you out of hers. Quite apart from that, you say that the reason you wanted to ask her to be in your wedding is to bring you closer together. That kind of plan often does not turn out the way people want them to go, and you may end up damaging your relationship with her even further. I suggest you ask the people to whom you are closest and keep on working on your relationship with your sister, apart from either her wedding or yours. Good luck.
Lol yep. That's drool. She's my big slobbery rump roast and I love her.
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