Are you guys allowing guest to request songs?
I was planning to and never gave this a second thought until my FMIL told me she told our young niece to practice a song to perform at our wedding. We made it clear we did not want this happening but I do not trust her to honor our wishes.
I was thinking of just saying no requests to he DJ to make sure it doesn't happen. Or I was thinking of telling him to use his judgement for request and only do songs you can dance to (we will pick all our slow songs). I can't do just request for wedding party because the MOG might get included and the little girl is a flower girl and her parents are in it.