Each bridesmaid is wearing either red or blue, pin-up curls, red
lipstick, etc. (they're all excited). My fiance is wearing his green
Alphas. His best man and other groomsman don't want to wear their
uniforms. So fiance suggested they wear slacks, a button-down, and
suspenders or vest. They don't want to wear that either (even after we
offered to buy the clothes thinking it was a money issue!). These men
are his 2 best friends, went through deployments together and whatnot.
I'm afraid that they're going to bail on him, considering they've bailed
on every BBQ and get-together that we've had. I honestly don't see
either of them driving 12 hours 1-way to make it to the wedding when
they didn't drive 15 minutes to our house. Any suggestions on what to do
here? I don't want him to be disappointed if they don't show (it really
means alot to him to have them there), and if they do come, how can I
have him tell them what to wear without ruining their friendship?!! I
personally don't care what they wear as long as it's not shorts and a
tank top! I want everyone to be comfortable, but also dressed
appropriately for a wedding.
